My sister and I were raised in our mother's Doreen Hayes School of Dancing in Toronto. Throughout her life she was very attached to her maiden surname. It wasn't until after her death that I discovderd Sir Thomas Hayes Lord Mayor of London under James 1st, John de la Haye executed by Henry VII and all their long line of Norman/Viking origins.
“I will be here until the end. I don’t want to sell this place,” she said. “I think when I am done, I want my name gone, too. It’s been a good name and served me well.”
Toronto Star 2012
For 20 years I searched for my mother’s Hayes ancestry. A letter from her aunt said her grandfather Charles was from Dublin, Ireland. Opening the package from the National Children's Home in England, my mother's excitement quickly turned to disappointment. He was not Irish.
As a 14 yr old orphan in the 1890s, he was picked up off the streets, admitted to the Liverpool Sheltering Home then shipped along with 80 other children to Knowlton House in Quebec, a Home Child Distribution Centre. The girls as domestics, the boys farm labour. Some were 6 years old. He faked his origins his whole life taking the secret to his grave in Park Lawn Cemetery where unknown to everyone a mass grave of Toronto home children was close by.